I used to believe that if you really really want something, you gotta ask for it. Ask from the Universe and it'll get it to you. Imagine yourself with it and you'll have it soon enough...be it love, money, health, anything...the secret the world has been talking about for a few years now. I still believe its true, but you know, there's something they don't tell you about that secret. It's kind of a secret of 'The Secret' that I've come to realize now. You keep wishing for the one thing you really want...you keep hoping against hope that somehow things work out...and then, something special, something magical happens. There it is, the answer to all your prayers is right in front of you, given to you by the Universe because you asked for it. Then, you are happier than happy, you have the one thing you needed to make your life perfect. You don't realize what you prayed for is gonna have a nature of it's own. And as you live through your life, you keep learning new things about the world, about you, about your surroundings...and things change. Believe me, not overnight...but they change gradually and it is so slow that life tricks you into thinking that nothing has changed, that you are still the old you. But oh dear! you are not; you are not what you were yesterday or even a minute ago.You are a new person, not necessarily a better person, but yes, a new person. And this new you doesn't really want the same things that the old you wanted...sometimes you do want it, but just not the way it is. You lose that happiness, that perfect life you thought you had...you ruin it for yourself. You think that you got what you wanted but in the end, fate takes its toll and all that you got is taken away from you. You see, all that matters IS the end. In the end, its not you who won, its the Universe that did. Therefore, I have come to believe that, what has to happen, will happen. If I am supposed to have something in life I will have it and if I am not supposed to, no matter how well I wish for it..even though for a brief moment I'll be blessed, things will take a big wild turn and all the wishes I thought had come true would no more make me feel blessed... You know why, coz I was not supposed to have it in the first place. At first, I thought it was all about wishing for the right thing in the right way.. you know, you gotta know exactly what you want. Na..ah, its not that, you wish for exactly what you want, exactly what you think is right for you, but you only end up with what has been written for you. Everyone has their fate written for them, it just all unravels as you make the little choices in life. It just doesn't make any sense anymore to put so much time and effort into wishing and imagining and hoping and wanting. Wouldn't you rather live your life the way it is, not bothering about what you wish you had or what you wish to happen, but embracing all that you have right NOW...because that's what you have been given. If you think you deserve more..you will get it..but STOP wishing for it and wasting your time, just make the right choices. It is terrible to have your prayers answered and then after a while conveniently watch your wishes walk away from you. Why worry then..? If
you think about it, we spend more than half of our day wondering about
how it would be if we had this or hoping for something to happen. Isn't it less pressure on you just to be. Be here; today is what you got, make the best of it. There is so much..just so much you can do in that time you have been squandering away into nothingness. Choose to live a life based on the choices you make whether they turn out to be good or bad for you...all you need to know about making choices is that you don't wanna regret not making the right one at the right time.
